Wednesday, March 2, 2011

worry wart

well i really am a worry wart!!! i get so uptight about what people might think about something that i have said.
I used to be worse actually :/

Now i don't bother with the text message or phone call saying:"oh i hope i didn't offend you". because half the time they didn't even remember what it was that i said. the whole time I'm thinking oh no there gonna think I'm being judgemental or that i said something that sounded like i was being mean or harsh.

Its not that i don't care now its just that i realise that if i actually did say something that was going to upset them that they would tell me or i would end up finding out.
I have this motto now that if i say something that can be taken two ways, and one way upsets you, i meant the other way!! i am seriously not the malicious or mean type. in fact i love people and i really cant handle confrontation at all.I do everything i can to be a likeable person, i guess that's why i always worry if i upset someone. but you know you cant please everyone and there is always going to be someone that you wont see eye to eye with.

Anyway thats my little thing to say so speak soon people :)

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